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How to Master the Pause

Plus - packing in 15 minutes and neighborly goals

Hope you had a solid weekend. My Steelers are 3-0. Let’s go!

Here’s what we got today:

  • The art of the pause

  • Badass Dad: Fred Rodgers

  • A chair you’ll wanna sit on

  • Don’t overthink it

  • How to pack in 15 minutes

  • Man cave

  • Dad humor

The Art of Keeping Your Cool (When Your Kids Are Losing Theirs)

You know those moments when your kid does something that makes your blood pressure skyrocket?

Before you go full Hulk, try this wild concept: The Pause™

This pause isn't about ignoring the situation. It's about giving yourself a moment to respond rather than react. It's the difference between a knee-jerk yell and a thoughtful conversation.

During that pause, ask yourself:

  1. Will this matter in 5 years?

  2. What's the lesson here?

  3. How can I turn this into a teaching moment?

Remember, our kids are always watching. By modeling this pause, we're teaching them a valuable life skill - how to manage their own emotions and think before they act.

Fred Rogers

You know, the guy with the cardigan and sneakers who made "Won't you be my neighbor?" a household phrase.

Now, Fred might not fit the traditional "badass" mold, but make no mistake - this man was revolutionary in his own gentle way.

Fred's approach to parenting and educating children was summed up in his quote: "Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like 'struggle.'" He acknowledged that parenting is challenging, but emphasized the importance of consistent effort and presence.

Rogers showed us that being a great dad isn't about having all the answers or being perfect. It's about being present, showing kindness, and sometimes being willing to look a little silly for the sake of your kids.

Foldable Portable Rocking Camp Chair

They had us at portable and rocking.

We've found the holy grail of camping comfort. Imagine kicking back at your campsite, cold brew in hand, gently rocking as you survey your domain. No, you're not dreaming - you're sitting in this ^ collapsible camping rocking chair.

How to Pack in 15 Minutes or Less

Today's lesson is crucial for your sanity and family harmony: how to pack for a weekend trip in 15 minutes flat. Because let's face it, sometimes spontaneity (or procrastination) calls for speed packing.

The Essentials:

  1. The 3-3-3 Rule: 3 shirts, 3 pairs of underwear, 3 pairs of socks. Mix and match, gentlemen.

  2. One pair of versatile shoes. Your lucky crocs don't count.

  3. Toiletries: Toothbrush and deodorant.

Pro Tips:

  • Roll, don't fold. It's faster and prevents wrinkles. Win-win.

  • Use shoes as storage for socks and underwear. It's not gross if they're clean.

  • Always pack a swimsuit. You never know when an impromptu pool party might break out.

The Secret Weapon: Keep a pre-packed toiletry bag ready to go. It's like a go-bag, but for your personal hygiene.

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